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He hardly ever gets in touch with you, he talks about “he still needs time”, he just doesn't want to commit himself yet.
And that, for no apparent reason, for no sensible reason.
We are dealing here with a “classic case”. You would not believe how many times I have heard stories like this one.
"He just doesn't know what he wants ..."
It happens a hundred times a day: a man is in a relationship with a woman, he seems to have serious feelings for her. He sometimes calls several times a day, he's sweet as sugar, calls her "sweetheart" but a few days later he behaves as if he were completely disinterested. As if he had forgotten everything that was said and shared.
Confusing isn't it? Not to mention that such an emotional roller coaster ride is quite simply EMERGING.
To shed some light on the darkness, I would like to explain to you in this article what goes on in a man who "doesn't know what he wants":
He actually feels something for you. Especially on days when he feels a little lonely, he really longs for you and shows you that too. Men need togetherness just like women. So you can certainly believe his romantic touches.
But:
If he listens deeply into himself, then the following happens:
He may have feelings for you, but at the same time he thinks:
“She's not THE ONE for me. She is not the one I want to spend my entire life with ”.
He believes that one fine day he will find “a better one”. So that you do not even begin to hope for a common future, he moves away from you emotionally at regular intervals.
This is the masculine way of not wanting to hurt a woman excessively. He justifies himself with: "I never gave her hopes for a future, so I have no emotional responsibility for her."
I know this is unfair, but unfortunately it is often the bitter truth ...
He is in the conflict that on the one hand he does not want to lose you (he knows very well that he will not find a woman like you on the next street corner), at the same time he still has the vision of his dream woman in his head - as hard as that sounds like:
He does NOT see you as his dream woman.
Not yet…
But that can be changed.
But what triggers the feeling in a man: "Yes, she is the one, the right one for me", what makes a man commit himself to you permanently?
In my free ebook I describe the four most important qualities of a woman, with which you (in the long run) appear irresistible to a man.
But first I want to explain what does NOT trigger this feeling in men:
You are trying to convince him that you are "the one" for him. “You won't find a better one than me! Don't you notice how well we fit together? "
However, feelings are not triggered by “persuasion”.
You are always the kind and understanding woman who gives him all the freedom in the world. You only meet with him when HIM feels like it. You are simply NOT trying to pressurize him. That may be convenient for him, but he only sees you as a "woman on call"
You're doing the opposite of that - you're putting pressure on him. You give him an ultimatum by when he has to make a decision for you. But emotions cannot be blackmailed, feelings are always something voluntary.
You confront him with your OWN feelings. You talk about "how much you love him" and how important he is to you. That may flatter him, but it doesn't change HIS feelings much.
These classic "mistakes" do NOT trigger the feeling in a man: "I don't want to lose you, I would like to spend the rest of my life with her!"
In my free ebook, I will explain to you which four feminine characteristics can turn a man's head:
35 truths about men
Dear reader,
You sometimes wonder what is going on in the head of this inscrutable “species of man”? Here is a small excerpt of what goes on in most men's minds - in relation to women and relationships - every day:
If I should speak to you, give me a signal - a smile or something similar. "Just like that" I will probably not address you - what if you are forgiven or even married?
I will do EVERYTHING for sex - even promise you that we will stay together for a lifetime
When you speak to me in a soft and calm voice, I can't help but listen to you
If a woman runs after me, I lose interest. I flee when something is chasing me
You should put me in my place every now and then, sometimes I need a "no" from you. This is how I recognize your worth and your personality.
I hate discussing our relationship, I will do everything I can to avoid such discussions. I even agree with you, even if you are wrong - for the sake of my inner calm
Don't try to change me - you won't. Never. Not even if you "only mean well to me"
If you put up with everything from me, I will lose respect for you. I will eventually stay with you. Because it's comfortable for me. But I do not love you deeply - that requires my respect
When I feel that I can't make you happy, I only feel like half a man. I then look around for others because I hate not being able to make a woman happy
I'm afraid a woman will get too deep into my heart - she could hurt me. At least once in my life I've been hurt by a woman, I want to spare myself this pain
If you do something that hurts me, I won't talk about it. I then rather toy with the idea of leaving you
I love it when you wear a dress and / or have long hair - in principle I love (optically) everything about you that sets you apart from myself, everything that is feminine and therefore different from me (that's the only reason I get up in the first place Women…)
I hate it when you tell me what to do - it makes me feel like you are my mother
Cigarettes and excessive alcohol consumption do not put you in a good light
If you submit to me unconditionally, I will never seriously fall in love with you. I need a PARTNER and not a toy
If I want something from you (sex, your feelings, your attention), give it to me SLOWLY than I expect - you are driving me completely crazy about you
If you ask me for my advice, you show me your trust. It makes me feel that you appreciate and respect me
To be respected and recognized is more important to me than to be loved
The attitude that you have towards yourself is basically also towards you. Be good to yourself and I will be too
I want every man to envy me for you. When I see other men look after you, it makes me proud
However, if you let other men understand that they have a chance with you, you make me angry. Not sad, but angry
I am very sensitive to loud and aggressive female voices. It is not the content of what is said, but the volume and the manner that put me off
I hate it when you don't take my compliments and say I "wouldn't mean it." I will then no longer compliment you
I am a lot more insecure than you think. Why do you think I'm so greedy for recognition?
I often don't know what's going on in my emotional world - and I'm not particularly interested in it. That's why I rarely talk about it
When I say something and then do the opposite of it - always pay attention to what I am doing. My actions tell you more about me than my words
I love it when you smile at me. One of the most beautiful things in life is a woman's smile. Smile at me and I will melt away
I don't want to know anything about your ex-partner, no matter what you say about him. I'm afraid he might have been better than me
I have no idea what's going on in your head. No, I CANNOT read your mind. Tell me specifically what you want and I will try to give it to you
If you don't think you're pretty, you won't believe me that I think you're pretty - even if I tell you a hundred times
It's not about how much you weigh, it's about your proportions. And about the ATTITUDE that you yourself have towards your body
If I don't share my thoughts with you, it's because I don't think you can help me with them right now. I want to do things on my own - I'm a man, after all
If you are cheating on me (sexually) it is next to impossible for me to ever get over it. Because you are hurting my pride and honor
I often need time to myself - that's my way of dealing with problems. I usually don't solve my problems by talking about it to someone
I have strange, wacky, and sexually colored thoughts at times. I don't take these thoughts too seriously myself, and I don't tell anyone about them. Often you wouldn’t even want to know what I’m thinking. So please don't ask me "What are you thinking"
Now learn the unvarnished truth,
what men REALLY think of women and why they fall in love with women